Helping Children Succeed With Homework
Helping Children Succeed With Homework
DO:
Have a positive attitude; homework builds responsibility and reinforces learning
Set clear expectations and consistent limits
Make daily agreements about the homework plan – provide choices
Divide homework into manageable chunks
Allow for breaks
Respond with empathy to frustration, anxiety, anger, avoidance and complaints
Intervene only when your child wants help; move away when your child begins to work
Use words such as, “You can do it,” “Give it a try,” “What’s the next step,” “What part can you do”
Focus on effort vs. grades
DON’T:
Nag, bribe or punish to get kids to do the work
Fight with your child over homework
Rescue child from struggle
Work harder than you child (it is not your homework)
Comment negatively on the teacher or the homework
Over-schedule your child
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